November, 2017 | Presidents Message
President's Message
My fellow TLOMA members:
It is small wonder that I begin every one of my preztalks with “It’s hard to believe” when, for example, the 2017 TLOMA Conference was three weeks ago. Can you believe it? A month ago I was urging you to register for it and now it’s over. And if you missed it, you missed it, but don’t despair, the 2018 Conference is around the corner and very soon I will be urging you to go to the TLOMA website and take advantage of the much cheaper Early Bird Registration rate. You can’t lose.
I don’t know about you but for me a Conference is not over until I have recovered all of my garments and this Conference was no different:
Driving back to Toronto in the rain, I had the sinking feeling that something was amiss. And just when the radio was blaring “I’ve been through the desert on a horse with no name, it felt good to be out of the rain” (The band is America, by the way, and I highly recommend it) it dawned on me – I had left my coat behind. I could picture it hanging in the wardrobe back at the hotel plotting its escape. It had succeeded. I pulled over and waited for the panic to subside. I couldn’t go home without my coat, again! The dashboard told me I was 150 kilometres away from Deerhurst and my first thought was cover-up. How much was the coat and could I replace it easily. When I realized that I would never be able to find the same make and model I called the hotel’s lost-and-found number. A rookie mistake! The electronic voice of a twelve year old instructed me to please leave a very detailed message and they would call me back, a promise they kept, albeit a week later. Then I did what any seasoned TLOMA member would have done in the first place and called Liz Barrington. Liz, who was just about to leave the hotel when I called, went back and recovered my coat and, being the consummate professional that she is, never mentioned recovering my pants which were hiding behind my coat. These were not my only pants, in case you were wondering, although I do like to travel light. Anyway, I got my stuff back at the next Executive Committee meeting, we all had a good laugh about it and only one of us was slightly embarrassed. I sure hope you couldn’t tell who…
This is not the first coat that has tried to leave me, by the way. Years ago at a Microsoft meeting about 30 participants had hung their coats on a self-service coat rack. Leaving the meeting five minutes before the end to meet with an HVAC technician at my house, I grabbed my coat and jumped in a cab. Arriving at my house I put on my coat but couldn’t find my keys in its pockets. I immediately called the taxi company and they contacted the driver of my cab, but he failed to find the keys either. My wife came to my rescue but the minute she got out of her taxi she gave me the look usually reserved for the gravest of my transgressions (putting a pillow out of place would be a good example). As I was protesting my innocence she said, “Whose coat are you wearing?” My heart did not sink right away. First I remembered that the coat’s pockets felt strangely shallow, but so what? “It’s mine, it’s blue and it fits”, I was still convinced but somewhat doubtful. “Your coat does not have brown buttons and brown leather trimming.” Fair enough. I took it off, took one look at the label inside and said with all the conviction I could muster, “It’s a London Fog size XXL, it’s mine”. “You don’t have a London Fog”, she was walking away shaking her head in disbelief.
What happened to my own coat is truly unbelievable: Another similarly sized participant, who had left the Microsoft meeting 2 minutes before me, grabbed my coat jumped into a cab to the airport to catch a flight back home to Chicago. It was a warm day and he never put the coat on. He carried it in one arm all the way to his front door which he attempted to unlock with my keys. Failing to unlock the door he put on my coat and rang the doorbell. His wife opened the door and gave him the look usually reserved for his gravest transgressions and said, “Whose coat are you wearing?” He called me right away and fedexed my coat, keys in pocket, to me and I fedexed his coat to him in the same box. A year later, back in Toronto, he called me to have a beer. And that’s how we men make lifelong friendships.
Speaking of friendships, many new ones were made and old ones strengthened during the 2017 TLOMA Conference at the spectacular Deerhurst resort. It was a truly memorable event with tons of networking opportunities for members and business partners alike. The educational sessions were well balanced and perfectly executed and both Keynote Speakers were amazing.
The Opening Keynote, Dennis Moseley-William, focused on the need to “stay true to oneself and be authentic” if you are to succeed in anything you do. For success is what you think it is and you are who you think you are. “Faking it may work for a while, sometimes for a long while, but ultimately you will come to regret it”. Think about it.
The Closing Keynote, Craig Kielburger, is one of those truly lucky people who discovered what he wanted to do with his life at the age of twelve and set about doing it never having to work a day of his life, because he loves what he does. What he has been doing for the past 25 years is change the world one person at a time. His organization, WE, today connects millions of people all over the world – ordinary people working together for the betterment of humanity. The power of WE. Awesome!
Of course, conferences don’t happen by themselves. A lot of hard work goes into planning them for a whole year. Kudos to the 2017 Conference Committee – Bernard, Debbie, Helen, Liz and Karen, and Shannon and David from IC+E – for a job well done!!
This year’s Conference was a lot of fun, you have set a higher standard and we thank you!
In other TLOMA news, the TLOMA Associate Survey meeting will be held on November 21 at WeirFoulds LLP. If your firm has participated in and/or purchased the 2017 TLOMA Associate Compensation Survey, we strongly encourage you to attend this session. There is no charge for attending.
The Fall Professional Development event is coming up soon – November 23 at the St. Andrew's Club & Conference Centre – and holds a lot of promise for anyone who is involved in the implementation of change in a law firm or wishing to improve file and budget management and client satisfaction.
And last but not least, the December Member Networking event will be held at the Rosewater Room on December 1. You know it will be fun, so reserve you seat now because space is limited.
That’s it for now. And if you were wondering, I gave my much travelled coat to a homeless man two days after it came back from Chicago and bought myself a London Fog. Yep, the same one I left behind in Deerhurst.